What causes most divorces in Kentucky?
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What causes most divorces in Kentucky?

On Behalf of | Jun 22, 2018 | Divorce |

Most Kentucky families would agree with you if you said life is busy, often chaotic and sometimes quite stressful. While some people are able to keep stress levels lower than others, most, especially married couples with children, experience trying situations at some point in their lives. There are several issues, in fact, that often lead spouses to determine their relationships are no longer viable. Therefore, if you’re currently considering divorce, you should know that you’re definitely not alone in your struggle.

What causes divorce? While there’s no one answer to that question, many couples cite various factors as major issues that often lead to marital break-ups. You may relate to one or more of these problems. It’s easy to feel lonely and isolated when you’re navigating divorce proceedings; however, speaking to others who have gone through similar experiences may be a great source of encouragement and support. It’s also comforting to know there are strong support networks in place that can help you overcome any obstacles that arise.

Were these issues causal factors in the breakdown of your marriage?

Coming to terms with what led you to want to divorce can help you gain control of your emotions and move on in life with practical goals and plans in mind to help your family adapt to its new lifestyle. The following list may include one or more reasons you began thinking about divorce:

  • Parenting replaced coupledom: Raising your children together may have built many joyful, lasting memories for you and your spouse. However, many spouses say their partners let parenting smother their marital relationships. Too much focus on parenting and not enough on marriage places couples at risk for divorce.
  • Lack of independent identity: Married people often have to compromise or place their spouse’s needs before their own. It is par for the course. However, some spouses say they lost touch with who they were as individuals because they suppressed their own goals, dreams, desires and preferences for the sake of the marriage.
  • Financial trouble: Married and single people typically encounter financial challenges at some point. Some spouses say their problems got out of hand or they were unable to resolve their differences regarding how they should or should not spend money.
  • Infidelity: While it is not the top reason people divorce as some might assume, it is definitely a concern in many marriages.
  • Irreconcilable differences: Many Kentucky spouses say they simply grew apart from their partners and no longer shared anything in common, the longer they were in a marriage. Some relationships are unable to withstand the changes that occur in personality through the years.

If you and your spouse get along well enough, you may be able to part ways in an amicable fashion, negotiating a co-parenting plan and divorce agreement that is satisfactory to you both. It’s not uncommon for disagreements to arise, however, and it’s a good idea to have a plan of action in mind if problems occur that cause delays to your settlement.