Many married couples go through periods in their relationships when tension is high, communication is poor and stress levels are through the roof. Sound familiar? If so, you are definitely not alone in your struggle. Life is a journey and marriage can be both rewarding and challenging at the same time.
There are problems you can resolve, but some issues seem to break that final straw -- situations from which you feel your marriage will not recover. Issues that cause divorce can seem minor at first, perhaps compounding over time or an acute situation might arise that causes immediate crisis and severe relationship breakdown. Divorce need not ruin your life, however, especially if you have a strong support system in place.
Fighting about finances
You've likely had ups and downs concerning money issues in your marriage. Various life events, such as the birth of a child, loss of a job or medical issues can spark drastic changes in your financial situation. If you and your spouse disagree about finances, it can cause serious problems in your marriage.
Extra marital affairs
This is an example of an acute crisis that can cause irreparable damage in a marriage. While not every marriage ends in divorce if a spouse has an affair, it remains one of the most common causes of divorce in Kentucky and throughout the nation.
Substance abuse problems
Living with someone who is addicted to drugs or alcohol can place heavy strain on a relationship. If you have children, a drug or alcohol-addicted parent can negatively impact their lives as well. Some people try to stick it out and get their spouses to go for help. Others determine it is better to separate, especially if there is domestic abuse occurring in conjunction with an addiction.
Take one step at a time
If you or your children are in danger because of an abusive situation, you can reach out for immediate support to get yourselves to a safe place, and then address marital issues, as needed. As for other divorce issues, it often helps to talk to a counselor or someone you know that has already navigated the divorce process.
If legal issues arise, you can seek guidance from someone who is well versed in Kentucky divorce laws. By making your children's well-being a central focus and knowing how to protect your rights, you can leave the past behind and build a strong, successful future.