Divorce is a word that most people never want to hear come from the mouth of their spouse. Sometimes, it is inevitable. Marriages aren't always meant to last. Problems will arise that can affect your marriage to the point where it cannot be repaired. Let's look at the common reasons why people file for divorce.
Some of the most common reasons for couples to file for divorce include the following:
- A lack of commitment to each other or the marriage
- Infidelity by one or both spouses
- Constant arguing or conflict within the relationship
The most common reasons why one of the spouses finally calls it quits in the marriage include the following:
- Domestic abuse
- Substance abuse
When it comes to married couples who are at least 40-years-old or older, AARP released a study that found the following as reasons why couples get divorced:
- A difference in lifestyle or values
- Abuse of the emotional, verbal or physical nature
Other reasons why many couples wind up filing for divorce include a change in the relationship goals, a change in wants and needs for life, playing the blame game and much more. One of the most common reasons for divorce is when one spouse changes their mind regarding having children after entering the marriage.
Has your marriage experienced any of the problems mentioned in this post? If so, your marriage might be headed for divorce. The reason why you and your spouse are fighting so much might not be on this list. Every marriage is different. Try not to compare your marriage to the marriage of others around you.